The Book That Helped Thousands of Stepmoms Stop Feeling Like the Villain.
Part fairy tale, part manual; this book gives stepmoms the science, humor, and heart they need to finally
breathe again.
1000+ trusted stepmothers worldwide
What Reader are Saying About This Book
The Evil Stepmother Speaks is a lovely reassuring book for stepparents!
You need to publish this book SOON because I really, really need to have a copy in my hands – bound with pages that I can flip back and forth to and read the important parts over and over, and highlight and dog ear, etc! I know this will become one of my very important ‘stepmom resources .
Barb Goldberg holds up the new mirror … a mirror without fear; one that is framed with insight; and one that sparkles with ideas that will break new ground for you and your family. After all, she s been there, done that.
Walking in
Each Other’s Shoes
You’re not alone in feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, or like you’re constantly walking on eggshells. These feelings are more common
than you think.
- Sensitivity: Words matter—both feel deeply.
- Volatility: Emotions run high; validation is needed.
- Jealousy: Insecurities can create tension.
- Empathy: Understanding each other bridges the gap.
The 4 Big Ideas
That Change Everything
Reality vs. Our Thoughts.
Our childhood experiences come to the forefront when we are faced with our stepfamily dynamics. What are those lessons that you learned along the way?
The Science Behind It All.
No, you’re not crazy. There is real science behind how you are feeling. Once you understand the process happening in your body, you are halfway there!
The Leadership Mindset.
The idea that a stepmother is not a ‘real’ member of the family is deep-rooted in our culture. Often, the reality is that we are actually the leaders.
Laugh Your Way to Peace.
The life of a stepmother is not for the faint of heart. A sense of humor is mandatory. Think about your life as a rom com and you are a member of the audience.
Here’s What You’ll Learn to Do Differently
You don’t need to change who you are — you just need a new way to see yourself.
These are the shifts real stepmoms experience after reading The Evil Stepmother Speaks.
Transformation List
Each bullet should feel like a mini “before → after” emotional payoff.
Set boundaries that don’t feel like battles
Keep your sanity and your connection — without guilt or resentment.
Stop taking rejection personally
Learn how to understand your triggers so others’ reactions stop defining your peace.
Turn “his kids” and “my kids” into our family
Learn actionable strategies to bridge gaps, nurture strong bonds, and create a united, loving family; without chasing perfection.
Talk Without Triggering Conflict
Discover the calm communication framework that ends arguments before they begin.
Become the calmest person in the room
Learn to lead with emotional strength — even when no one else is calm.
The Ultimate Stepmom Bundle
Two heartfelt books that bring laughter, love, and understanding to stepfamilies.
# I Want a Stepmom, Too
A child wonders what it means when a new stepmom joins the family. At first, it feels confusing. But through rhymes, colorful illustrations, and gentle humor, children discover that hearts don’t run out of room—there’s always space for more love.
# The Evil Stepmother Speaks: For Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh
The fairy tale of the evil stepmother gets retold into the way the story should have been written. As the stepmother goes on her journey, she finds invaluable lessons and laughter along the way. This book teaches the science and the psychology behind the stepmother journey.
Two books. Endless love. A step toward stronger, happier families.
I’m Barb Goldberg —
Once upon a time, I divorced my first husband… then found my second — and three bonus kids.
I know what it’s like to feel like an outsider in your own home, to question every decision, and to wonder if things will ever feel peaceful.
Now I teach stepmoms how to lead, not just survive.
- 1,000+ stepmoms coached
- Certified Life Coach (trained by Dr. Martha Beck, O Magazine)
- MBA + BS in Special Education
- 20 years in Fortune 500 leadership
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If you ever feel as if you have disappeared. It may come down to your ability to say “No!”