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Stepmom, you’re not the villain — you’re the leader
Learn the art and science of stepfamily peace; without losing your sanity or sense of humor.
1,000+ Trusted
Stepmothers Worldwide
I am Barb Goldberg and I have been a stepmom for 35 years. I am still laughing
You must be asking yourself. How can she still be laughing? Is she insane or does she know something I don’t know.
Welcome to The Evil Stepmother Speaks…a safe place for stepmoms. We teach stepmother peace through practical scientific knowledge and good ole fashioned know-how.
Walking on Edge
You try to keep the peace, afraid one wrong word could break the fragile balance at home.
Feeling Unseen
You give your all, yet your love and effort often go unnoticed.
Love That Hurts
You care deeply, but the bond you dream of still feels just out of reach.
You Are Not Broken.
You’re just wired for survival in a family system that was never designed to blend easily.
The traditional family model doesn’t account for stepfamilies. When things feel hard, it’s not because you’re failing; it’s because you’re navigating something fundamentally different.
You stop taking things so personally. You stop blaming yourself.
And you finally see that peace isn’t about perfection; it’s about understanding the system and learning how to lead it with calm and confidence.
I’m Barb Goldberg —
Once upon a time, I divorced my first husband… then found my second; and three bonus kids.
I know what it’s like to feel like an outsider in your own home, to question every decision, and to wonder if things will ever feel peaceful.
Now I teach stepmoms how to lead, not just survive.
- 1,000+ stepmoms coached
- Certified Life Coach (trained by Dr. Martha Beck, O Magazine)
- MBA + BS in Special Education
- 20 years in Fortune 500 leadership
Books by Barb Goldberg
Two heartfelt books; one for the stepmom learning to lead with love, and one for the child discovering that family can grow in beautiful ways.
The book that started it all.
The Evil Stepmother Speaks
A witty, science-based, and deeply honest guide for stepmoms who want peace instead of chaos.
- Blends humor, neuroscience, and practical tools.
- Helps stepmoms find calm, confidence, and connection.
- You will laugh and relate as the stepmother takes her journey through her very real fairy tale.
A children's story about extra love.
I Want a Stepmom, Too!
A tender, funny, and beautifully illustrated book that helps kids understand blended families and the magic of ‘extra’ love.
- Perfect for kids ages 4-8, this rhyming, picture book is perfect for families navigating divorce, remarriage and family changes.
- Sure to bring tears to your eyes.
- A wonderful gift for stepchildren, grandparents and new/old stepmoms.
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You don't need to fix your family you just need a plan.
Stop walking on eggshells. Start living with confidence. Your stepfamily journey begins with a single conversation.